Same-Sex Parenting: Key Research Findings & What Studies Reveal
It's difficult to unearth the truth with all the noise and fanfare surrounding the studies that purport to show “no difference” between children raised in the home of same-sex parents and those raised in the home of their married mother and father. It's also...
Study: Involved Fathers Make Babies Smarter (and that’s unacceptable)
It is endlessly shocking to me that an argument erupts every time a new study comes out promoting traditional mother- and father-based parenting. Case in point: A new study revealed that babies who spend quality time with their fathers perform better in cognitive...
What’s so bad about divorce?
Reams of research testify to marriage being a force for good in the lives of children and statistically, the home of a child's married mother and father is the safest place for a child. However, Them Before Us does not advocate for "marriage at all costs" if the...
What can you do to right this ship? Get on board.
Even when the captain decides to change course, it can take up to ten miles to turn a loaded cargo ship around. Them Before Us is challenging some of the most well-funded organizations in the world, and children are their commodity, their cargo. These powerful people...
Biology Matters
Regardless of how often we hear, "it doesn't matter who raises a child as long as they are safe and loved," the data reveals that being raised by both biological parents is one of the strongest predictors of whether or not a child will actually be safe and loved. But...
Bill Nye, Ice Cream, and “flavors of sexuality”
Bill Nye the *honorary* Science Guy has ventured into new, unscientific territory and he has taken innocent old ice cream with him. Here's his video attempt to simplify the complexities sexual orientation and its expression. If you happen to find the video unwatchable...
Gender Matters
Children are fragile human beings that require the utmost provision, love, attention, moral education, and the inculcation of virtues. Without the proper care, children would not survive infancy nor grow to maturity. Depending on their age, children possess different...
Third Party Reproduction Vs. Adoption- there’s a big difference.
Them Before Us is categorically against third-party reproduction. We are also whole-hearted supporters of adoption. Both adoption and donor-conception involve loss for children. In both situations a child is living with at least one non-biological parent. Donor...
The Greatest Battle of Our Time
The way to have a real, profound, lasting effect on future generations is to become an advocate of just one thing – marriage. Championing marriage and children rights is an all-encompassing battle against every societal ill and the devastation it visits upon all of us. That’s why it’s the greatest battle of our time- the outcome of the marriage battle will determine all others.
Would you force insurance agencies to cover surrogacy if you heard this boy’s testimony?
This week legislation is being proposed in Hawaii to force insurance companies to cover IVF and surrogacy for gay couples: [A gay couple is] pushing legislation that would require insurance companies to cover in vitro fertilization for more couples, including...
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