This week the twitterverse celebrated the arrival of baby Robert Ray Black-Daley via surrogacy. Baby Robert was conceived using donor eggs and the sperm of either Tom Daley or Dustin Black. From the pregnancy announcement, to the surprise baby shower to their...read more
"It’s horrendous: The heartache of a migrant boy taken from his father.” “It’s inhumane: Hollywood protests separation of children from their parents.” “Newborn separated from mother while she was breastfeeding.” “Hundreds of immigrant children have been taken from...read more
We Can Mend Our Society by Defending Children's Rights. It's that simple. No one- neither liberals concerned with social justice, nor conservatives who want small government, nor children who are made for their mother and father's love- gets what they want until we...read more
这篇文章的中文翻译可以在WeChat找到 My name is Katy Faust. I live in Seattle. I have gay friends and family who I love. And I support traditional marriage. I know that you have probably heard that people who oppose gay marriage are narrow-minded, or bigoted, or are even afraid of...read more
This month Vanessa Trump, the wife of Donald Trump Jr. filed for divorce in a Manhattan court. Vanessa and Donald Jr. have been married for 12 years and have 5 children ranging from 10-year-old daughter Kai to 3-year old Chloe. “After 12 years of marriage, we have...read more
Nearly every country that has legalized commercial surrogacy has proceeded to ban it. Most recently in 2015, Thailand and Nepal; Mexico followed suit in 2016 and India banned commercial surrogacy last year. Cambodia, just this week, drafted legislation banning...read more
When people think about surrogacy, it's always from the adult's perspective- the infertile couple with no way to have children, or the gay couple who needs a "surrogate angel" to complete their family. But there are very real risks to children when we commercialize...read more
Dear New York Senator/Assemblyman, Them Before Us exists to defend a child’s fundamental right to their mother and father. This right grants children not only the two people who are statistically the most likely to be connected to, protective of, and invested in them...read more
This is the worst "I told you so" ever. In the committee hearing for Washington State's Uniform Parentage Act (UPA) which will legalize commercial surrogacy, award parental rights to any adult(s) who can acquire a child through reproductive technologies, and make...read more
The Washington State legislature is planning to ring in the new year by violating children's rights as they consider SB 6037, “The Uniform Parenting Act.” In discussions on family structure- whether you’re talking about marriage, divorce, or the booming fertility...read more
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Them Before Us is made up of ordinary adults who are committed to putting the needs of children at the forefront of the battle surrounding the very foundation of our society - marriage and family. Are you an ordinary person too? Does your simple blood boil when children are expected to conform to the lifestyle of adults because you understand, maybe firsthand, how hard that is on kids? And are you tired of culture framing adults as victims when we all know that kids are the ones who have to pay the price? If so, we are your people.
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