Supporters of gay marriage have aggressively promoted the idea that “all kids need is love.” They argue that children do not specifically need the love of their father or the love of their mother, just generic “love.” For that to be the case, there must be no...read more
California will become the first state to ban pet stores from selling animals from commercial breeders. Governor Jerry Brown signed the law that animal rights advocates hope will limit the "needless suffering" of animals for sale in the state. The bill was passed on...read more
Surrogacy has been on the rise for years, and it finally landed on the doorstep of the Supreme Court... only to be turned away. But not before the country was able to see surrogacy for what it really is- the manufacturing, buying and selling of babies. Stephen King...read more
Them Before Us supports adoption, when it is properly understood. Adoption must always be viewed as a child-centric institution, not simply as a means for adults to have children. No adult - heterosexual, homosexual, or single- has a “right” to adopt. Rather, every...read more
All you need is love might be a catchy Beatles tune, but it's a lie. Especially when it comes to marriage. Them Before Us opposes gay marriage, not because we oppose gay people - we are proud to have a number of both gay and lesbian TBU leaders who are passionate...read more
Chile appears set to become the latest South American country to legalize same-sex marriage, following Argentina, Uruguay, Brazil and Colombia. The bill, introduced by President Michelle Bachelet, will take time to make its way through Congress, but it is another...read more
Australian homosexual couples enjoy the same legal rights as heterosexual couples but there is still a (very ugly) battle raging over the last conceptual distinction between gay and straight unions: the term "marriage." The Land Down Under is set for a nation-wide...read more
Mountains of evidence confirm that children do best when they live with their married biological parents; no alternative family structure affords children the level of protection and stability as their natural family. Children under the pressure of a broken family...read more
John McEnroe. I have hardly heard his name since I was a kid listening to my dad yell at the TV screen for him to "stop throwing his racket around like a baby!" But in the last few weeks, the bad boy of tennis has captured headlines and my attention... twice. The...read more
On the second anniversary of the national redefinition of marriage, today the US Supreme Court struck down an Arkansas law that kept same-sex couples from listing their spouse as a parent on their child's birth certificate. Why? Because, as many of us argued prior...read more
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Them Before Us is made up of ordinary adults who are committed to putting the needs of children at the forefront of the battle surrounding the very foundation of our society - marriage and family. Are you an ordinary person too? Does your simple blood boil when children are expected to conform to the lifestyle of adults because you understand, maybe firsthand, how hard that is on kids? And are you tired of culture framing adults as victims when we all know that kids are the ones who have to pay the price? If so, we are your people.
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