Testifying Against Big Fertility in Washington State

Them Before Us presented the following statement to the Washington State House | Health Care & Wellness Committee on House Bill 1151: (You can watch here, timestamp 1 hour 49 minutes.) And to the Senate Health & Long Term Care Committee on SB 5204 (timestamp...

Them Before Us Files an Amicus Brief Asking the Supreme Court to Protect Children from Misuse of CPS

The child welfare system exists to protect children and strengthen families — two goals that go hand in hand. When that system is misused, children suffer. That’s why Them Before Us has filed a brief asking the Supreme Court to protect the rights of children.

Colorado’s child commodifying “Family Affirmation Act” passes in the House

Colorado House Bill 22-1153, the mis-named Family Affirmation Act, seeks to make parentage easier for adults employing assisted reproductive technologies. But in the process, it violates the universally-acknowledged children’s right to be known and loved by both...
Oppose No-Fault Divorce, Support Texas HB 3188

Oppose No-Fault Divorce, Support Texas HB 3188

Them Before Us advocates for a child’s rights to her mother and father. Thus we oppose no-fault divorce, an Adverse Childhood Experience (ACE), which denies children the daily contact with both parents that they need, crave and benefit from.  This ACE results in...

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SCOUTS Amicus Brief for Box vs Henderson

SCOUTS Amicus Brief for Box vs Henderson

Them Before Us filed an amicus brief with the Supreme Court making one thing abundantly clear: Birth Certificates Exist for Kids, Not Adults. Box vs Henderson is an Indiana case arguing the same-sex spouse of a biological parent should be listed on a child's first and...

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Letter to Colorado – Mandating IVF Coverage Harms Children

Letter to Colorado – Mandating IVF Coverage Harms Children

February 25, 2020 RE: OPPOSITION TO HB 20-1158 Dear Honorable Members of the Colorado Senate: Thank you for your public service to the citizens of Colorado. Your role as a leader in making decisions that benefit the best interest of all Coloradans is critical. We are...

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Dear South Dakota, Babies Aren’t Commodities

Dear South Dakota, Babies Aren’t Commodities

IN SUPPORT OF HB 1096 Dear Members of the House Judiciary Committee;  My name is Katy Faust. I am the founder and director of the children’s rights organization Them Before Us. We represent the party who is most impacted by HB 1096: the children. Here are four ways...

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Dear Minnesota, Surrogacy Commodifies Kids

Dear Minnesota, Surrogacy Commodifies Kids

Dear Members, My name is Katy Faust. I am founder and director of the children’s rights organization Them Before Us, committed to defending children's rights in family structure. We represent the party most impacted by HF 1140 – the children.  While surrogacy harms...

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Dear NY, Commercial Surrogacy is Bad for Kids

Dear NY, Commercial Surrogacy is Bad for Kids

Re: S.2071 Child - Parent Security Act Dear Member of Assembly, My name is Katy Faust. I am founder and director of the children’s rights organization Them Before Us. We represent the party most impacted by S.2071 - the children.  The ill-named "Child-Parent Security...

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Virginia’s HB1979 Harms Children

Virginia’s HB1979 Harms Children

February 8, 2019 Re: HB1979 on Assisted Conception; Amends Statute to Provide Gender-Neutral Terminology, etc. Honorable Senators, My name is Katy Faust and I am the founder of the children’s rights organization, Them Before Us. We represent the party that you haven’t...

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