This week the twitterverse celebrated the arrival of baby Robert Ray Black-Daley via surrogacy. Baby Robert was conceived using donor eggs and the sperm of either Tom Daley or Dustin Black. From the pregnancy announcement, to the surprise baby shower to their...
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You care about children at the border? Then you should care about the rights of all children.
"It’s horrendous: The heartache of a migrant boy taken from his father.” “It’s inhumane: Hollywood protests separation of children from their parents.” “Newborn separated from mother while she was breastfeeding.” “Hundreds of immigrant children have been taken from...
Thanks to Gay Marriage, Recognizing Mothers and Fathers Is “Unconstitutional”
This is the worst "I told you so" ever. In the committee hearing for Washington State's Uniform Parentage Act (UPA) which will legalize commercial surrogacy, award parental rights to any adult(s) who can acquire a child through reproductive technologies, and make...
Six Reasons Why Washington State’s “Uniform Parentage Act” Should Die A Terrible Death
The Washington State legislature is planning to ring in the new year by violating children's rights as they consider SB 6037, “The Uniform Parenting Act.” In discussions on family structure- whether you’re talking about marriage, divorce, or the booming fertility...
Gender Matters in Writing… And Parenting.
Supporters of gay marriage have aggressively promoted the idea that “all kids need is love.” They argue that children do not specifically need the love of their father or the love of their mother, just generic “love.” For that to be the case, there must be no...
Surrogacy and the silent MINORity
Surrogacy has been on the rise for years, and it finally landed on the doorstep of the Supreme Court... only to be turned away. But not before the country was able to see surrogacy for what it really is- the manufacturing, buying and selling of babies. Stephen King...
Think legalizing gay marriage will help kids with LGBT parents? Think again.
Australian homosexual couples enjoy the same legal rights as heterosexual couples but there is still a (very ugly) battle raging over the last conceptual distinction between gay and straight unions: the term "marriage." The Land Down Under is set for a nation-wide...
Divorce is Bad for Your Kid’s Health
Mountains of evidence confirm that children do best when they live with their married biological parents; no alternative family structure affords children the level of protection and stability as their natural family. Children under the pressure of a broken family...
John McEnroe Shreds Serena and Reality- why gender matters in tennis and marriage.
John McEnroe. I have hardly heard his name since I was a kid listening to my dad yell at the TV screen for him to "stop throwing his racket around like a baby!" But in the last few weeks, the bad boy of tennis has captured headlines and my attention... twice. The...
“Equality” for Same-Sex Couples on Birth Certificates = Inequality for Kids
On the second anniversary of the national redefinition of marriage, today the US Supreme Court struck down an Arkansas law that kept same-sex couples from listing their spouse as a parent on their child's birth certificate. Why? Because, as many of us argued prior...
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