In early December 2020, Myles Brady Davis, a transgender man, gave birth to a daughter, Zayn, with “his” partner, Precious, a transgender woman. Illinois, rightly so, recognized “him” as the baby’s mother, as, of course, it is biological women who give birth to...
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Governor Cuomo passes legislation to ensure that children are legally denied rights to their mothers and fathers
On February 15th, 2021, New York’s Governor Cuomo will realize his dream of legalizing gestational surrogacy in New York state. The precursor for this new legislation began in 2020 with Coumo’s launch of the “Love Makes A Family” campaign, which sought to “legalize...
What Veronica’s Story Reveals About Surrogacy’s Harm to Children
In a recent interview with Jennifer Lahl of the Center for Bioethics and Culture, two-time traditional surrogate mother Veronica discussed how the surrogacy process has affected not only her life, but the long-lasting effects on the surrogate children-her two...
Sasha – …for children, marriage has always been, and remains, the permanent bond between the two people both responsible for their present and future well-being
Marriage: Many believe that the institution of marriage is becoming obsolete, evidenced by historically low marriage rates. Further, marriage is increasingly believed to be a private contract intended to gratify adult desires. However, for children, marriage has...
2020 Round Up!
It's been a tough year for everyone. But despite the pandemic, the distancing, and the economic challenges, children's rights have marched on. Here's a round-up of what Them Before Us has accomplished in 2020, thanks to your support. We wrote a book! Them Before Us-...
Why We Think About Divorce, Surrogacy, And Family From The Wrong Perspective
(Originally published at The Federalist) Katy Faust is co-author of the new book, “Them Before Us: Why We Need a Global Children’s Rights Movement,” and director of the non-profit Them Before Us. She...
Twenty-seven Year-Old Babies: The Promise and Perils of Embryo Adoption
The birth of Emma and Molly should result in two seemingly contradictory but simultaneous responses: the redoubling of our efforts to halt the creation of surplus embryos left to languish in freezers, and the celebration of the two beautiful girls who made it out.
For the child, surrogacy is the gift that keeps on taking
On November 29th, 2020, a woman who acted as a gestational surrogate for her best friend posted on reddit that her friend had passed away recently, leaving the young girl to whom she had given birth without a mother. Unsurprisingly, the child’s father is now insistent...
The Need for More Restrictive IVF Legislation
(Reprinted with permission from the Society of St. Sebastian) Abstract. In our current society, the push for less restriction on reproductive technologies is prevalent. IVF and surrogacy, however, inherently possess many injustices for human beings. Therefore, more...
I’m A Children’s Rights Activist. That’s Why I’m Voting For Trump
I didn’t vote for Donald Trump in 2016, but this year, only an act of God could stop me from doing so. I make no excuses for Trump’s loose Twitter finger, and I still wince over the laundry list of cringe-worthy statements and undisciplined behavior we’ve all...
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