Then 6-7 years ago now, we anticipated a lot of what’s in UPA 2017 and made most of our act gender neutral. We were the first of a number of states that have done that on their own. And then in reaction to the Obergefell decision by the US Supreme Court in 2015, the Uniform Law Commission decided that the current version of the parentage act was likely to be unconstitutional and began the process of rewriting it so that it would apply equally to same-sex couples.
Got that? When husbands and wives are optional in marriage policy, mothers and fathers become optional in parenting policy. Post-gay marriage, a law that recognizes both mothers and fathers as necessary to children is unconstitutional. Looks like Washington State will follow in the footsteps of other nations which have sacrificed the rights of children on the pyre of adult desires.
Of course, no matter what the law states, you cannot legislate away a child’s longing for their mother and father.
Them Before Us formally opposes this bill. Here’s my written testimony which highlights the numerous children’s rights violations in the UPA by contrasting it with adoption best practices.
If you’re in Washington State and think that children’s right should trump adult desires, instruct your senator to put Them (the kids) before Us (adults) and vote down SB 6037.
Why call themselves parents because they are not
“Parents” : NO. ❌. “Pretenders” : YES ☑️
I don’t think that we should replace parent with the word adult. Those taking care of our children have always had the honored title of parent. As far back as the Webster dictionary being a parent has meant to have the privilege to educate and protect our young people, so that they can grow up to become responsible and contributing to the world and to learn how to give back.
Every child dezerves to be parented and raised by their mother and father and to have ongoing relationship with their mother and father who are their parents which is not unconstitutional.