In Support of Oklahoma’s Senate Bill 1958 Opposing No-Fault Divorce
Dear Committee members, Them Before Us defends children's rights in the family. We are writing in support of SB 1958 because of the significant and lasting harm that no-fault divorce inflicts on Oklahoma’s children. “Divorce” is another term for the death of a family....
Expendable lives: Abortion and IVF share the same adult-centric priorities
(Originally published in World News Group) Last month, Democratic senators Tammy Duckworth, Patty Murray, and Susan Wild unveiled their Access to Family Building Act to protect “access to fertility treatments.” The bill essentially recognizes an adult's “right” to IVF...
Transgender Ideologues Perform Dangerous Experiments On Babies With Male ‘Chestfeeding’
(Originally published in The Federalist) In the name of “equality,” the University of Sussex Hospitals National Health Service (NHS) Trust has stated that pharmacologically induced breast milk produced by men is comparable to milk produced by females. The NHS trust...
Alabama Sets the Stage for a Supreme Court Fight Over IVF
(Originally published in The American Conservative) Last Friday, the Alabama Supreme Court reversed a trial court’s decision regarding embryos destroyed at a fertility clinic. Their ruling applied the Wrongful Death of a Minor Act to all unborn children, including...
I Paused My Career To Have Children And It Was The Best Decision I Ever Made
(Originally published in Evie Magazine) I arranged my 2, 4, 6, and 8-year-old in my tight minivan and set out for the three-hour trip from Seattle to Portland. Somewhere south of Olympia, my 4-year-old, seated directly behind me, began to vomit. Mom reflexes kicked...
Raised by Two Men: Here’s My Story
Samantha, a fellow advocate with Them Before Us, created a video to share with lawmakers in the Czech Republic debating the legality of same-sex marriage and same-sex parenting. She noted that while she was well loved by her two gay dads, she hungered for a mother....
Them Before Us statement on the Alabama Supreme Court’s ruling on the Personhood of Frozen Embryos.
We applaud the Alabama Supreme Court‘s pro-child decision which recognizes and protects life in all circumstances, inside or outside of the womb. This decision is an important step forward in holding the fertility industry accountable, including their processed which...
Them Before Us Podcast | Questions & Answers
Katy and Jenn love fielding questions from our fellow Them Before Us advocates. We're going to document questions that have already been answered and which episode you can find them in. Enjoy! Them Before Us #034 Will the Alabama decision change the IVF industry? How...
By Pretending Surrogacy Is A Right, Adults Deny The Rights Of Children
(Originally published in The Federalist) The Michigan House passed the Assisted Reproduction and Surrogacy Parentage Act, HBs 5207-5215, on Nov. 9, 2023. These bills seek to legalize surrogacy, which is still a misdemeanor in Michigan, and establish parentage rights...
New European study claims that children with two dads are doing better than those with heterosexual parents
In a European study of child outcomes, researchers evaluated the children born to gay couples through surrogacy and compared them to those born to heterosexual couples. The study participants included 67 gay couples who became parents via gestational surrogacy and 67...
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