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Michael’s story | “…for all of those years, it was more important to keep denying that children need fathers.”

Michael’s story | “…for all of those years, it was more important to keep denying that children need fathers.”

by Them Before Us | Jul 16, 2022 | Stories | 3 comments

I am speaking up about these events for the first time in my life, at the age of 36, because no child should ever have to endure what I did, of which what I wrote is a mere summary, sparing many details and protecting many guilty parties of even more than I write. My...
Hannah T.’s story | “I have sat on my grandma’s couch more than once crying, asking why my life turned out different than my siblings.”

Hannah T.’s story | “I have sat on my grandma’s couch more than once crying, asking why my life turned out different than my siblings.”

by Them Before Us | Jan 16, 2022 | Stories | 4 comments

My parents divorced when I was 11 years old. There are 5 of us children and I’m in the middle. When I was young, my father was a preacher, and I became a born-again believer in the Lord Jesus Christ at the age of 6. During this part of our childhood our mom was a...
Sarah St. Onge’s story | “I needed a father, as do most other girls growing up in single parent homes.”

Sarah St. Onge’s story | “I needed a father, as do most other girls growing up in single parent homes.”

by Them Before Us | Jul 29, 2020 | Stories | 9 comments

In 2016 I purchased an Ancestry DNA test. It sat on my counter for a week before I spit into the tube and mailed it out — sending my genetic material off into the universe, hoping to find some information about myself and where I came from. The idea was terrifying in...
You Can’t Fix Tough Adoptions With ‘Re-Homing,’ Only Faithfulness

You Can’t Fix Tough Adoptions With ‘Re-Homing,’ Only Faithfulness

by Katy Faust | Jun 3, 2020 | The Latest | 2 comments

(Originally published at The Federalist) Myka Stauffer of YouTube fame has “re-homed” her autistic, adopted Chinese child, Huxley. Stauffer became widely known in large part due to the video documentation of her adoption journey. Huxley’s emotional gotcha-day video...
Stephanie’s story | “I cannot express adequately how the trauma of my childhood has carried over into my adult years.”

Stephanie’s story | “I cannot express adequately how the trauma of my childhood has carried over into my adult years.”

by Them Before Us | May 15, 2020 | Stories | 1 comment

When I was just a toddler, my mom married my stepfather.  She had just dissolved her marriage with my biological father mere months earlier.  My stepfather brought 3 of his own children to the marriage.  He had been divorced from their mother.  My baby brother was a...
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