Another study reveals what we already know; divorce mentally and emotionally damages children.

In order to mitigate the suffering and devastation of your children after divorce, the Millennium Cohort Study has revealed that it’s better for kids if you rip the rug out from under them when they are between the ages of three and seven. In other words, get out...

Children Created via ART at Increased Risk for Intellectual Disabilities

Struggling with infertility is agonizing. Yet that primal desire for a child despite biological roadblocks has driven Assisted Reproductive Technology (ART) to become a billion dollar industry. An industry which continues to research methods and procedures to improve...

New Study: Half of US Children are Emotionally Starving

We have been studying family structure long enough to know that there are three staples of a child's emotional diet: the love of their father, the love of their mother, and stability.  Increasingly, America's children are being denied one or more of these critical...

What’s so bad about divorce?

Reams of research testify to marriage being a force for good in the lives of children and statistically, the home of a child's married mother and father is the safest place for a child. However, Them Before Us does not advocate for "marriage at all costs" if the...

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Biology Matters

Regardless of how often we hear, "it doesn't matter who raises a child as long as they are safe and loved," the data reveals that being raised by both biological parents is one of the strongest predictors of whether or not a child will actually be safe and loved. But...

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Gender Matters

Children are fragile human beings that require the utmost provision, love, attention, moral education, and the inculcation of virtues. Without the proper care, children would not survive infancy nor grow to maturity.  Depending on their age, children possess different...

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