Eight years of Obergefell proves children are the victims of marriage equality
(Originally published in The Washington Examiner) Eight years ago this week, five Supreme Court justices redefined marriage for the entire country in the name of “equality.” Remember those ubiquitous blue and yellow “=” bumper stickers? Those hesitant to abandon the...
What YOU said about the importance of Dads
Ahead of Father's Day, we asked our social media followers and advocates: From lighthearted to serious, children's rights activists honed in on the distinctive that only dads can offer their children. While he certainly gave me the 'girl talk' on the day I needed that...
California Bill Would Make Insurance Fund Unlimited Attempts To Create Motherless And Fatherless Children
(Originally published in The Federalist) Marriage, once the most child-friendly institution in the world, has now been redefined in the name of equality. It was argued same-sex couples just wanted to visit one another in the hospital, have access to the same...
Them Before Us & The Alliance for Responsible Citizenship
Many of you might be familiar with Canadian psychologist and author Jordan Peterson. He has assembled a team as an ideological counter to The World Economic Forum. The Alliance for Responsible Citizenship or ARC! The Alliance for Responsible Citizenship (ARC) is being...
9 Children On The Devastating Moment They Learned Their Parents’ Marriage Was Over
(Originally published in The Federalist) Last week, The Cut profiled nine women about “the Moment They Knew Their Marriage Was Over,” noting, “as painful as it may be” sometimes divorce is “exactly what you have to do.” It’s true that the marriage challenges adults...
Them Before Us with Lila Rose: Being Pro Life and the ethics of surrogacy, IVF and more
"Is surrogacy ethical? What about IVF? And how are these reproductive technologies morally different from adoption? I discuss with Katy Faust, children's rights advocate and founder of Them Before Us, about the ethical challenges with Big Fertility, and the just and...
Them Before Us – Your Children’s Rights Podcast
We're excited to announce that the inaugural episode of the Them Before Us Podcast has finally dropped. We intend for this to be yet another resource for all of you children's rights advocates out there. Our aim is to look at legal and cultural news and how to view...
Win for Children’s Rights: Them Before Us Combated Bill in Minnesota Subsidizing Donor Conception
Them Before Us joined with allies in Minnesota to combat a bill that would have required insurance companies to subsidize the fertility industry and intentionally deny children a relationship with one or both of their biological parents. At the end of Minnesota’s legislative session the language was removed from the final version of the Health and Human Services Omnibus bill in conference committee.
Putting Children at the Center of Family Policy
(Originally published in Public Discourse) The landscape around marriage and the family has drastically changed over the past sixty years. Culturally, adult sexual desire, choice, and identity have been elevated as the highest goods. Legally, no-fault divorce...
How the GOP Can Become the Pro-Child Party
(Originally published in Newsweek) Glenn Youngkin's 2021 upset win in the Virginia governor's race introduced a new voting bloc: parents. Since then, threats to parental rights have only increased, with blue states like California declaring themselves "sanctuary...
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