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Heart-Wrenching Letter from Son Whose Father Transitioned

Heart-Wrenching Letter from Son Whose Father Transitioned

by Them Before Us | Sep 26, 2023 | Stories

(Originally published on MadMommaBear Blog) From a Guest Author, a letter shared from a son to an absent father about the experience of losing a father: Hello, I am fine. Sorry I haven’t reached out to you in a while. I’m doing very well in school; I have a 4.0 GPA....
Evangeline Kippling’s story | Transgender mom and meth addict dad

Evangeline Kippling’s story | Transgender mom and meth addict dad

by Them Before Us | Jun 27, 2021 | Stories | 4 comments

My parents were separated before I was even born and they got officially divorced when I was 1. My mom started dating women after that…and she also cut her hair very short and dressed kind of manly. My dad went to prison twice when I was younger for possession...
Joshua Hewitt’s story | “Some say that the transgender woman who was my Dad will always be my father. There is no truth in this for me.”

Joshua Hewitt’s story | “Some say that the transgender woman who was my Dad will always be my father. There is no truth in this for me.”

by Them Before Us | Jan 29, 2020 | Stories | 1 comment

Twenty one years ago I lost my father. The hardest part of losing him is that he didn’t die. One day he walked out the door and never returned. Sometimes I allow myself to imagine how much easier it would have been if he had died. My grief would have welled to the...
Elizabeth Garrott’s story | “To me, my father had died, and there was no changing that. I was looking at a shell of the man I once knew.”

Elizabeth Garrott’s story | “To me, my father had died, and there was no changing that. I was looking at a shell of the man I once knew.”

by Them Before Us | Jun 3, 2019 | Stories | 6 comments

My parents were married in their early twenties as a lot of couples typically do. I was born a couple years later in 1976. I grew up knowing the love of my mother and father in a normal household. I was particularly close to my father as a lot of young girls are. They...
Corbin’s story | “Most of my youth [my mom] was a lesbian. My father decided that he has always been a woman.”

Corbin’s story | “Most of my youth [my mom] was a lesbian. My father decided that he has always been a woman.”

by Them Before Us | Nov 28, 2018 | Stories | 7 comments

My parents were allegedly a common law marriage, but the state they lived in didn’t recognize common law marriage at the time, so far as I can tell. They were hippies, my father was a drunk and a junkie, my mother left him when I was 2 and my brother 4. My...
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