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Jeremy’s story | “My brother and I were competition for my dad’s affection from his gay lover.”

Jeremy’s story | “My brother and I were competition for my dad’s affection from his gay lover.”

by Them Before Us | Apr 30, 2019 | Stories | 9 comments

My mom and dad married in 1967.  Early on, it was clear (according to my mom) that dad was more interested in his music (big piano player) than he was in actually taking care of two little boys.  My twin brother and I would be in our cribs, crying (needing to be...
Corbin’s story | “Most of my youth [my mom] was a lesbian. My father decided that he has always been a woman.”

Corbin’s story | “Most of my youth [my mom] was a lesbian. My father decided that he has always been a woman.”

by Them Before Us | Nov 28, 2018 | Stories | 7 comments

My parents were allegedly a common law marriage, but the state they lived in didn’t recognize common law marriage at the time, so far as I can tell. They were hippies, my father was a drunk and a junkie, my mother left him when I was 2 and my brother 4. My...
John’s story | “My mother was pictured as ignorant and irresponsible by my stepmother.”

John’s story | “My mother was pictured as ignorant and irresponsible by my stepmother.”

by Them Before Us | Nov 28, 2018 | Stories | 2 comments

My parents were separated before I knew what was going on. I remember another woman I didn’t know yelling at me about something to do with a baby crawling on the floor. I remember my dad and another woman naked in a sauna that was part of the apartment. Then I...
Tara’s story | “…The father in my house was not really my dad.”

Tara’s story | “…The father in my house was not really my dad.”

by Them Before Us | Nov 15, 2018 | Stories | 7 comments

My parents married at 18 years of age because of my impending arrival. My mother and I—along with my brother, who came along 15 months later—lived with my maternal grandparents for the first few years of my life. My dad was in the US Air Force and stationed far away,...
Beth’s story | “I’ve been told that I don’t matter and other people will be the priority.”

Beth’s story | “I’ve been told that I don’t matter and other people will be the priority.”

by Them Before Us | Nov 5, 2018 | Stories | 3 comments

As I began to write this I wanted to start with who I am. But that is hard for me because, even in my mid-thirties, I am still not very sure. I know what I am not. I know what I am not supposed to be. I know what I want to be. But I am not exactly sure who I am. I was...
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