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Joshua Hewitt’s story | “Some say that the transgender woman who was my Dad will always be my father. There is no truth in this for me.”

Joshua Hewitt’s story | “Some say that the transgender woman who was my Dad will always be my father. There is no truth in this for me.”

by Them Before Us | Jan 29, 2020 | Stories | 1 comment

Twenty one years ago I lost my father. The hardest part of losing him is that he didn’t die. One day he walked out the door and never returned. Sometimes I allow myself to imagine how much easier it would have been if he had died. My grief would have welled to the...
Kathryn Francisco’s story | “It’s okay to believe that the method of your conception was wrong and still give thanks for your life.”

Kathryn Francisco’s story | “It’s okay to believe that the method of your conception was wrong and still give thanks for your life.”

by Them Before Us | Jan 21, 2020 | Stories | 5 comments

It’s such a vivid memory. One day, when I was about fourteen, I was riding in the car with my dad, and we were talking about ancestry. I was very curious about my roots. When I asked him what percentage Cherokee we were, he gave an odd response. I said, “If you’re...
Rashell’s story | “I can say with 100% certainty that my life would have been so much easier had my parents just stuck it out.”

Rashell’s story | “I can say with 100% certainty that my life would have been so much easier had my parents just stuck it out.”

by Them Before Us | Jan 21, 2020 | Stories | 8 comments

My parents were young when they married. They were both 17. My mother was still in high school and pregnant. She graduated but my dad didn’t. He worked in the oilfield in Oklahoma and made great money when times were good. I was their only child. I’m 41...
Caressa Fennell’s story | “My earliest memory is the day my mother committed suicide.”

Caressa Fennell’s story | “My earliest memory is the day my mother committed suicide.”

by Them Before Us | Jan 3, 2020 | Stories | 6 comments

My earliest memory is the day my mother committed suicide. That was the day the first crack appeared in my perfect, 3 year-old-life – the first crack of many that would break my heart and leave me broken, but not crushed, for a while. My story begins long before I was...
Moira Greyland’s story | “I was born into a family of famous gay pagan authors in the late Sixties.”

Moira Greyland’s story | “I was born into a family of famous gay pagan authors in the late Sixties.”

by Them Before Us | Nov 19, 2019 | Stories | 19 comments

I was born into a family of famous gay pagan authors in the late Sixties. My mother was Marion Zimmer Bradley, and my father was Walter Breen. Between them, they wrote over 100 books: my mother wrote science fiction and fantasy (Mists of Avalon), and my father wrote...
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