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Stephanie Blessing’s story | “I found out I was conceived through a sperm donor…I mourned the loss of a man I never knew existed.”

Stephanie Blessing’s story | “I found out I was conceived through a sperm donor…I mourned the loss of a man I never knew existed.”

by Them Before Us | May 15, 2017 | Stories | 8 comments

Photo Credit: Anonymous Father’s Day, Center for Bioethics and Culture Just a couple of weeks after my 32nd birthday, I found out that my parents used a sperm donor to conceive me. That was 8 years ago. As soon as my mother said the words, “your dad may not be...
Kathleen LaBounty’s story | “At the age of 8, I learned about my conception history.”

Kathleen LaBounty’s story | “At the age of 8, I learned about my conception history.”

by Them Before Us | Apr 15, 2017 | Stories | 4 comments

As an adult offspring of an anonymous sperm donor, I am telling pieces of my life story to provide the perspective of an offspring, to advocate for the needs of future offspring, and to expose relatively ignored complexities resulting from donor conception. My journey...
Jessica Kern’s story | “We want to know who gave birth to us and what they are like.”

Jessica Kern’s story | “We want to know who gave birth to us and what they are like.”

by Them Before Us | Apr 15, 2017 | Stories | 2 comments

My name is Jessica Kern. I am a product of a traditional surrogacy. This is where a surrogate is hired to both donate her egg and carry the child to term… As a product of surrogacy I can tell you firsthand what we children of donor conception go through....
Brian C.’s story | “I don’t care why my parents did this. It looks to me like I was bought and sold.”

Brian C.’s story | “I don’t care why my parents did this. It looks to me like I was bought and sold.”

by Them Before Us | Apr 15, 2017 | Stories | 22 comments

My name is Brian and I am the son of a traditional surrogate, a biological father, and an adoptive mother. I think all of you here need to know how I feel about surrogacy.  I have read a certain popular surrogacy board since I was 16 and I am almost 18 now. I was...
Becky’s story | “Maybe my father simply couldn’t bear the fact that I was another man’s child.”

Becky’s story | “Maybe my father simply couldn’t bear the fact that I was another man’s child.”

by Them Before Us | Apr 15, 2017 | Stories

My parents separated when I was very young — still a baby — and I was brought up by my mother with very little financial or emotional input from my father, though I did see him regularly throughout my childhood. Nevertheless, by the time I was 18 I had pretty much...
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