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Susan’s story | “I was 13 years old when Dad left the second time…Is it any surprise that I deal with depression?”

Susan’s story | “I was 13 years old when Dad left the second time…Is it any surprise that I deal with depression?”

by Them Before Us | Mar 12, 2021 | Stories | 2 comments

My adoption was in the works before I was born. My adoptive parents had been married about 9 years and had been unable to get pregnant. My adoptive mother wanted nothing more than to be a mom. My bio-mother was married, but had been intimate with another woman’s...

Why We Think About Divorce, Surrogacy, And Family From The Wrong Perspective

by Them Before Us | Dec 13, 2020 | The Latest | 1 comment

(Originally published at The Federalist) Katy Faust is co-author of the new book, “Them Before Us: Why We Need a Global Children’s Rights Movement,” and director of the non-profit Them Before Us. She joins Culture Editor Emily Jashinsky to explain why adult desires...
Stephanie’s story | “I cannot express adequately how the trauma of my childhood has carried over into my adult years.”

Stephanie’s story | “I cannot express adequately how the trauma of my childhood has carried over into my adult years.”

by Them Before Us | May 15, 2020 | Stories | 1 comment

When I was just a toddler, my mom married my stepfather.  She had just dissolved her marriage with my biological father mere months earlier.  My stepfather brought 3 of his own children to the marriage.  He had been divorced from their mother.  My baby brother was a...
Victoria’s story | “The impact of total abandonment by my biological father, and in part by my mother, has left me with emotional pain that still plays out today.”

Victoria’s story | “The impact of total abandonment by my biological father, and in part by my mother, has left me with emotional pain that still plays out today.”

by Them Before Us | May 1, 2020 | Stories | 3 comments

My purpose in writing this is to explain some of the pain I have experienced by not having my mother and father raise me.  I hope my story can be a cautionary tale for anyone considering sex outside of traditional marriage.  In no way do I advocate for abortion.  I am...
Samuel’s story | “I tried to tell her the divorce had really affected me, but she told me to get over it and that she needed the divorce for herself.”

Samuel’s story | “I tried to tell her the divorce had really affected me, but she told me to get over it and that she needed the divorce for herself.”

by Them Before Us | Apr 21, 2020 | Stories | 2 comments

I’ve been meaning to write about my childhood for years but I kept kicking the can down the road. No more. I shall divide the story of my childhood into two parts: the early years from 1998 to 2009 (parents’ divorce), and 2009 to 2015 (when I had an epiphany and began...
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