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Pamela’s story | “My mother told me she didn’t know who my father was…in the same sentence she told me she was gay.”

Pamela’s story | “My mother told me she didn’t know who my father was…in the same sentence she told me she was gay.”

by Them Before Us | Jun 15, 2017 | Stories | 1 comment

My situation was unique in that my alcoholic mother and I lived with her parents until I was 8. I don’t have many memories of my mother even though I shared a bedroom with her. I believe God was protecting me. I don’t believe there was any physical abuse....
Kathryn’s story | “My mother told my brother that he was now the ‘man of the house’…he became depressed in his 20’s and drowned.”

Kathryn’s story | “My mother told my brother that he was now the ‘man of the house’…he became depressed in his 20’s and drowned.”

by Them Before Us | May 22, 2017 | Stories

My brother & I grew up without the presence of our father for most of our childhood. There were brief times we spent as a family of four, but those moments were few & far between. My mother eventually packed our bags when my father was at work one day, and we...
Maria’s story | “Divorce was a one-time event for my dad. But it was the beginning of countless losses for me.”

Maria’s story | “Divorce was a one-time event for my dad. But it was the beginning of countless losses for me.”

by Them Before Us | May 2, 2017 | Stories | 13 comments

My parents divorced when I was eight.  At the time I had no idea that their marriage was struggling, though looking back there were signs.  In fact, the night they “told me” they took me out to eat and upon leaving the restaurant I put my arms around each...
John King’s story | “I’ve been scorned for not adapting to and celebrating my parents’ new sexual identities.”

John King’s story | “I’ve been scorned for not adapting to and celebrating my parents’ new sexual identities.”

by Them Before Us | Apr 30, 2017 | Stories | 42 comments

I was ten years old when my Mom told me she was a Lesbian. It’s amazing the things you take for granted, until one day, everything changes. Who knew, things like family dinners I thought were such a hassle would be so deeply missed. I suppose its human nature to take...
Alana Newman’s story | “After a wrenching divorce, I never again saw that ‘dad’ of mine.”

Alana Newman’s story | “After a wrenching divorce, I never again saw that ‘dad’ of mine.”

by Them Before Us | Apr 15, 2017 | Stories

I remember the first time I struggled to understand the ethics of a case involving reproductive technologies. I was five years old, folding clothes in my bedroom with my mom. She told me that my dad was not my biological father. My biological father was an anonymous...
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