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Michael R.’s story | “It is a no-true-win situation for a child to grow up as donor-conceived.”

Michael R.’s story | “It is a no-true-win situation for a child to grow up as donor-conceived.”

by Them Before Us | Oct 17, 2023 | Stories

I was a donor-conceived (IVF) child and a twin born in 1995. My mother desperately wanted to have children but with no prospect of a traditional family. She lived in central California in the 90’s and was near a larger IVF facility. She proceeded to try multiple...
Shocking New York Times Article Illuminates That In Vitro Fertilization Means Babies Built To Order

Shocking New York Times Article Illuminates That In Vitro Fertilization Means Babies Built To Order

by Katy Faust | Jun 30, 2021 | The Latest | 2 comments

(Originally published at The Federalist) York Times contributor Alicia Lombardini just chronicled her obsession with becoming a single mother through in vitro fertilization (IVF) with a stranger’s sperm. The June 15 autobiographical article, titled “I did IVF without...
“…I was just filled with anger all the time. That’s all I really feel about my existence. Anger.”

“…I was just filled with anger all the time. That’s all I really feel about my existence. Anger.”

by Them Before Us | Jun 16, 2021 | Stories | 1 comment

(Originally published on AnonymousUs) Growing up it was just my mom, my two very involved godparents and me. I always knew I was missing a biological father. I always had to explain to my friends since the age of five why I don’t have a dad. I liked it, I got...
Maggie’s story | “I’ll never fully heal from having an absent father and being raised by a single mother.”

Maggie’s story | “I’ll never fully heal from having an absent father and being raised by a single mother.”

by Them Before Us | May 27, 2019 | Stories | 7 comments

I grew up as an only child of a single mother, and as a young kid I never really questioned it. My father had been around briefly when I was born up until age 3. I saw him a few times a year after that, and then not at all from ages 5-11.   It seemed so simple to me...

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