Surrogacy and the silent MINORity

Surrogacy has been on the rise for years, and it finally landed on the doorstep of the Supreme Court... only to be turned away.  But not before the country was able to see surrogacy for what it really is- the manufacturing, buying and selling of babies.   Stephen King...
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Position Statement On Adoption

Them Before Us supports adoption, when it is properly understood.  Adoption must always be viewed as a child-centric institution, not simply as a means for adults to have children. No adult - heterosexual, homosexual, or single- has a “right” to adopt. Rather, every...
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Marriage is Married to Parenthood- a global survey on how gay marriage weakens children’s rights.

All you need is love might be a catchy Beatles tune, but it's a lie.   Especially when it comes to marriage.  Them Before Us opposes gay marriage, not because we oppose gay people - we are proud to have a number of both gay and lesbian TBU leaders who are passionate...
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Why ‘Swipe Right to Build-a-Baby’ Is So Wrong

Recently, the hosts of The View discussed a new phone app called Just a Baby which "helps you find a surrogate, partner, co-parent, sperm, or egg donor – or find someone that needs your help to have a baby.” Their reactions ranged from “this makes me crazy”...

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Stories of Donor-Conceived Kids with Gay Parents- Why “family break-up” doesn’t explain their struggles.

“Am I the only one who feels this way? Am I a bad daughter because I wish I had a Dad? Is there anyone else who has 2 Moms or 2 Dads who wonders what it would be like if they were born into a normal family? Is ther anyone else who wants to be able to use the word normal without gettin a lecture on what is normal??? I dont know my real father and never will. Its weird but I miss him. I miss this man I will never know. Is it wrong for me to long for a father like my friends have?”

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Divorce Selfies Are a Thing- children not pictured.

The latest selfie trend?  That would be #DivorceSelfie.  "People are taking to Instagram to document their divorces just as they would their engagements or weddings, using the hashtag #divorceselfie. Because who doesn't love a good divorce at the end of a terrible...

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What’s so bad about divorce?

Reams of research testify to marriage being a force for good in the lives of children and statistically, the home of a child's married mother and father is the safest place for a child. However, Them Before Us does not advocate for "marriage at all costs" if the...

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What can you do to right this ship? Get on board.

Even when the captain decides to change course, it can take up to ten miles to turn a loaded cargo ship around. Them Before Us is challenging some of the most well-funded counterculture elites in the world, and children are their commodity, their cargo. These powerful...

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