Marriage Isn’t About Making Adults Feel Nice, It’s About Raising Children

(Originally published at The Federalist) I read Chad Felix Greene’s recent Federalist article with interest because it addressed the institution of marriage and gay people, both of which are very close to my heart. I wouldn’t be the woman I am today without the...

Surrogacy Harms Children- Video for the UN Conference on the Status of Women

This video was produced for "Surrogacy: A Fresh Look at Women’s Bodily Autonomy and the Rights of Children," an event sponsored by Center for Family and Human Rights (C-Fam) and Civil Society for the Family. The transcript below includes links to the stories and...

Dear NY, Commercial Surrogacy is Bad for Kids

Re: S.2071 Child - Parent Security Act Dear Member of Assembly, My name is Katy Faust. I am founder and director of the children’s rights organization Them Before Us. We represent the party most impacted by S.2071 - the children.  The ill-named "Child-Parent Security...

An Open Letter to Dave Rubin

Greetings, Mr. Rubin. First of all, let me say that I’m a bonafide IDW groupie.  I am a dogged consumer of the Rubin Report, Ben Shapiro is the soundtrack to my dinner prep (mostly so my kids can hear the “other side” of whatever they were fed at school that day) and...

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The White Paper- Who We Are and Why We Exist

We Can Mend Our Society by Defending Children's Rights. It's that simple. No one- neither liberals concerned with social justice, nor conservatives who want small government, nor children who are made for their mother and father's love- gets what they want until we...

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