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The White Paper- Who We Are and Why We Exist

The White Paper- Who We Are and Why We Exist

We Can Mend Our Society by Defending Children's Rights. It's that simple. No one- neither liberals concerned with social justice, nor conservatives who want small government, nor children who are made for their mother and father's love- gets what they want until we...

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Position Statement On Adoption

Position Statement On Adoption

Them Before Us supports adoption, when it is properly understood.  Adoption must always be viewed as a child-centric institution, not simply as a means for adults to have children. No adult - heterosexual, homosexual, or single- has a “right” to adopt. Rather, every...

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Marriage isn’t about God.  It’s about kids.

Marriage isn’t about God. It’s about kids.

I recently spoke with a bright college student fresh from her Gender Studies class who wanted to know why Christians were trying to “force their morality upon a secular society” by supporting traditional marriage.  It's a good question, and one that we should be ready...

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What’s so bad about divorce?

What’s so bad about divorce?

Reams of research testify to marriage being a force for good in the lives of children and statistically, the home of a child's married mother and father is the safest place for a child. However, Them Before Us does not advocate for "marriage at all costs" if the...

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What can you do to right this ship? Get on board.

What can you do to right this ship? Get on board.

Even when the captain decides to change course, it can take up to ten miles to turn a loaded cargo ship around. Them Before Us is challenging some of the most well-funded organizations in the world, and children are their commodity, their cargo. These powerful people...

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Biology Matters

Biology Matters

Regardless of how often we hear, "it doesn't matter who raises a child as long as they are safe and loved," the data reveals that being raised by both biological parents is one of the strongest predictors of whether or not a child will actually be safe and loved. But...

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Gender Matters

Gender Matters

Children are fragile human beings that require the utmost provision, love, attention, moral education, and the inculcation of virtues. Without the proper care, children would not survive infancy nor grow to maturity.  Depending on their age, children possess different...

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Them Before Us is made up of ordinary adults who are committed to putting the needs of children at the forefront of the battle surrounding the very foundation of our society - marriage and family.  Are you an ordinary person too? Does your simple blood boil when children are expected to conform to the lifestyle of adults because you understand, maybe firsthand, how hard that is on kids? And are you tired of culture framing adults as victims when we all know that kids are the ones who have to pay the price? If so, we are your people. 

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