The Father Effect- Daughters of Divorce Serve as a Test Case

Dads do something for kids that moms can't.  They influence their child's behavior in ways that moms don't. And their involvement effects boys and girls in sex-specific ways. We know this because when dad is absent, boys and girls face distinct risks.  While boys who...
Read More

Divorce is Bad for Your Kid’s Health

Mountains of evidence confirm that children do best when they live with their married biological parents; no alternative family structure affords children the level of protection and stability as their natural family. Children under the pressure of a broken family...
Read More

John McEnroe Shreds Serena and Reality- why gender matters in tennis and marriage.

John McEnroe.  I have hardly heard his name since I was a kid listening to my dad yell at the TV screen for him to "stop throwing his racket around like a baby!" But in the last few weeks, the bad boy of tennis has captured headlines and my attention... twice. The...
Read More

Divorce Selfies Are a Thing- children not pictured.

The latest selfie trend?  That would be #DivorceSelfie.  "People are taking to Instagram to document their divorces just as they would their engagements or weddings, using the hashtag #divorceselfie. Because who doesn't love a good divorce at the end of a terrible...

read more

What’s so bad about divorce?

Reams of research testify to marriage being a force for good in the lives of children and statistically, the home of a child's married mother and father is the safest place for a child. However, Them Before Us does not advocate for "marriage at all costs" if the...

read more

What can you do to right this ship? Get on board.

Even when the captain decides to change course, it can take up to ten miles to turn a loaded cargo ship around. Them Before Us is challenging some of the most well-funded counterculture elites in the world, and children are their commodity, their cargo. These powerful...

read more

Biology Matters

Regardless of how often we hear, "it doesn't matter who raises a child as long as they are safe and loved," the data reveals that being raised by both biological parents is one of the strongest predictors of whether or not a child will actually be safe and loved. But...

read more

Bill Nye, Ice Cream, and “flavors of sexuality”

Bill Nye the *honorary* Science Guy has ventured into new, unscientific territory and he has taken innocent old ice cream with him. Here's his video attempt to simplify the complexities sexual orientation and its expression. If you happen to find the video unwatchable...

read more

Gender Matters

Children are fragile human beings that require the utmost provision, love, attention, moral education, and the inculcation of virtues. Without the proper care, children would not survive infancy nor grow to maturity.  Depending on their age, children possess different...

read more

The Greatest Battle of Our Time

The way to have a real, profound, lasting effect on future generations is to become an advocate of just one thing – marriage. Championing marriage and children rights is an all-encompassing battle against every societal ill and the devastation it visits upon all of us. That’s why it’s the greatest battle of our time- the outcome of the marriage battle will determine all others.

read more
Share This